Unlike Marissa, this writer did feel able to confront her guy about the swapped-out pic. And no, it wasn’t the lighting or the camera angle - he sent me a dick pic of a penis that was so different to his in so many ways. The sex was honestly a solid 7.5/10, but there was just one thing that weirded me out: He had a different penis.
“I got myself excited and headed straight to his place. “His was big and smooth and had the right amount of veiny-ness,” she wrote. One anonymous writer did document her experience in a piece for the Australian women’s publication Mamamia back in 2019, though. So, I just left it.”Īlthough Marissa absolutely isn’t alone in her experience - many people have probably been cockfished without even realizing it, particularly if they never meet the cockfish in person - there’s very few detailed stories about the phenomenon online. “When he left, I considered asking him about it, but, ultimately, I didn’t want to keep talking to him or inflame the situation. “At the time, I really felt like I had no options,” she reflects.
Had he wanted Marissa to freak out, shame him and send him away? “If so,” she says, “all he had to do was ask.”īy this point, Marissa didn’t want to give him the satisfaction of getting his possibly desired humiliation, nor did she want to embarrass him if he was feeling nervous. Instead, she felt obliged to act cool about it, and carried on with the encounter “to make sure he didn’t feel uncomfortable.”Īnother thought that crossed Marissa’s mind - and one that could be a genuine reason people cockfish - was whether he’d come to her looking for small-penis humiliation. Taken aback, she was unsure what to do - she knew she could have stopped and told him to leave, or asked him about why he sent her a photo of someone else’s dick, but she didn’t want to shame him or piss him off. Immediately, she felt “weird and taken advantage of.” “It wasn’t because he had a small cock, it’s that he felt he had to trick me into doing this,” she says. Confused, Marissa did a mental comparison and realized what had happened: He’d sent her photos of someone else’s cock. ( Allegedly, stress has the same effect on your penis as the cold, which can shrink your dick by up to 50 percent.)īut things didn’t get better when he calmed down - even erect, he was nowhere near the same size as he was in the photos. After all, dicks can shrink significantly when someone’s nervous. His balls were also extremely small, and looked entirely different than they did in the photos he sent me.” But, Marissa says, he was flaccid then, so she just assumed it was his nerves. His cock was tiny - like, maybe two inches long. “When we got there, I knelt down to take off his pants, and when I did, I was shocked. “When he showed up, he was nice, but he was shaking because he was so nervous,” she tells me.Įventually, the pair went to Marissa’s room. Interested in seeing his good-looking dick in person, Marissa invited the guy over. “I just assumed, rather naively, that he was sending me photos of his real dick,” she explains.
In all her excitement, Marissa didn’t think to ask for a photo that included the guy’s face and cock (or at least enough of his body for a positive identification).